Many women say that men using seduction techniques is morally wrong. But I'd like to ask you if this sounds familiar:
You meet a cute girl
You are able to get her number
You call her and set up a date.
You show up at her door with flowers, candy, or some other nice gift.
You go out to for a nice dinner and let her know how you feel about her.
Your date quickly ends, she won't take any of your calls and you have no idea why.
We can relate to this because every guy has been through it at least once in his life. And it's usually with a girl we really liked!
The reality is we as men have been PROGRAMMED to act this way.
Just look at what you see in the movies, the guy wins the girl's heart by confessing his never-ending love.And what does the girl do? Get teary eyed and rush into his arms.
It's only logical for us to want to romance a girl on the first few dates with her.
But should you romance her or artfully employ seduction techniques to make her actually WANT you?
The answer, if you haven't already guessed, is to use seduction techniques. And this is why...
Women and men take different approaches to dating. Guys, for the most part, know they like a woman before their date even begins. If a woman looks good and appears to be interesting, men get hooked like a fish.
For most women though, the dating game is actually meant as a "qualifier". Of course, she may also be looking to let down her hair and have some fun, but subconsciously, she's searching for very specific characteristics in you that can seal either your success or doom with her.
Keep in mind that as a woman, she can't help but do this. It's in her genetic make up. Just as you can't help but look at a woman's well developed chest. It's just nature.
Whenever you lavish a girl with romantic gestures,early in your relationship, you are in essence, handing power over to her and telling her that you are not important. Thus not worth being with.
Women actually need to feel that they've earned your interest.
You want to use seduction techniques that show you hold value and have her trying to figure you out. This poses a challenge and is increadibly sexy to her. As a result, she will set out to be worthy of your attention.
To produce this sexual attraction, you need to exhibit qualities of men that stimulate and excite women. This includes:
• Challenging what she says and does - But don't be a jerk about it. Women want to know know you have your own thoughts and speak your mind. No woman wants to be with an ass.
• Use humor to banter and tease her
• Show an impulsive attitude
• Demonstrate high confidence - This alone is very sexy to women.
I need to emphasize that as you are using seduction techniques to build sexual tension in her, you need to reamain a gentleman at all times. This is the magic that draws her in and makes her want you all the more.